Oh, Say Can You See...

You probably have the day off from work, maybe are ready to throw some meat on the grill, are just drying off from a dip in the lake, or are waiting for the fireworks show to begin. Because you’re celebrating the greatest of summer days, I won’t keep you long.

I hope the celebration of our nation prompts a thankfulness to God for the riches we enjoy as those who live in the land of the free. When you pray today before devouring the ribs and washing them down with freshly squeezed lemonade, would you remember God’s providence to you and yours for where you live on his planet and the time in human history when you live here? Two lines from Katharine Lee Bates American, the Beautiful (1913) play in my head today and ascend to heaven in my prayers. Both are necessary.

America! America! God shed His grace on thee,

and

America! America! God mend thine ev’ry flaw,

I hope you have a wonderful day celebrating God’s gift of the United States of America.

As always I welcome your feedback and any suggestions you might have for an upcoming Lunchtime Musing.

Have You Heard the One About the Cowboy and the Pastor?

 

Our church property sits prominently on top of a hill and adjacent to an exit ramp for the only southern loop around St. Paul and Minneapolis. Every summer brings travelers out of gas, overheated engines belching out steam, and backpacking loners toting sleeping bags looking for their next ride in the cab of an eighteen wheeler.

We’ve helped single women needing a place to sleep for the night and hungry kids whose parents left New York in the minivan for a fresh start in Minnesota. Before last Saturday, I thought I’d seen it all. That’s when I heard the knock at the rear entrance glass door and saw the cowboy – I mean it, a real live cowboy – standing outside hat in hand and wearing boot cut jeans over the well-worn leather on his feet. I wrongly assumed he was looking for gas money. I could not have been farther from the truth.

“Howdy,” he said. That’s not Minnesotan, don’tcha’ know. A clue – he’s not from around here. “Could we water the horses?”

Horses? What horses?

As he told it, he and the others in his caravan were traveling from South Dakota with two trailers carrying four horses each. The weather was warm last Saturday, and the horses needed some refreshment. Was there any way we could help?

We have ten acres of land at our suburban location, and a large portion of it is open field and tree lined. The wise people who planned our property installed a water pipe to the back field should we ever need it. Last Saturday we needed it to water horses traveling in a hot trailer from South Dakota.

The cowboys unloaded their beasts who roamed the range for nearly two hours before the ‘pokes corralled them into the trailers for the next leg of the journey. I hope word gets out to the rest of the cowboys on the Pony Express that there is a watering hole in Inver Grove Heights run by a Christian church eager to bring relief to weary animals.

More than that, I hope word gets out to the neighborhoods around our building that there is a place for weary people to find relief. The place is a Christian church eager to share the love of Christ, to give a cup of cool water in Jesus’s name, and who offer the water of life freely. I hope people who know of our church think, “That’s a place where everyone can get help,” and “They don’t turn anyone away.”

I dream of us having a reputation of a place where answers to life’s hardest questions are offered freely and without a catch, a place where a knock on the door leads to a friendly greeting and a willingness to share what we have for temporal relief and eternal salvation. If cowboys can find help here, shouldn’t burdened families, troubled marriages, lonely single professionals, defeated addicts, self-absorbed executives, confused high school and college students, and most-of-life-well-spent senior citizens who know much of religion but nothing of the gospel?

As I read back over this Musing, I suppose it’s a little corny, making a devotional thought out of watering some horses, but I’m arrested at Jesus’s words, On the last day, that great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, "If anyone thirsts, let him come to Me and drink (John 7:37).”

We’ve been satisfied by Jesus’s water, and He has given it to us to make available to others. All around our building are thirsty people, thousands of them within minutes of our property. Can we give them something to drink?

As always I welcome your feedback and any suggestions you might have for an upcoming Lunchtime Musing.

Our Grown Man

“I have to buy a minivan!” were the first words out of my mouth, said without delight and in response to Brenda’s heart pounding news that she was going to have a baby.

You can fit three kids in all kinds of vehicles. They can ride in the back seat of a Mustang or the second row of a crew cab pickup. Both vehicles were fine choices for a cool youth pastor with flowing hair back in the day. But when you pass the three-kid-threshold and move to four or beyond, a minivan becomes the only realistic option. We’ve owned vans of a variety of makes and models for nearly 20 years, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Our youngest graduated from high school last week. When God gave him to us in November, 1998, Jeffery balanced the family as boys became the bookends and girls filled in the middle. Neither Brenda nor I ever thought it would be that way.

God gave us a first born son, and with the exception of zero interest in potty training, Michael was the ideal infant and toddler. Then God gave us a daughter, and with the exception of zero interest in sitting still or refraining from climbing to the top of everything, Jennifer completed our perfect, little family. A few years later, God gave us the child I didn’t want (search past Lunchtime Musings for that transparent post) when Emily made us the Jackson 5, as our pastor’s wife liked to call us.

But Emily was to be the last. No more kids. More kids equal a minivan. I didn’t want a minivan or any more kids. Then God gave us Jeffery, and I can’t imagine life without him or the minivan.

Jeffery’s older siblings will tell you that he is the stereotypical baby of the family. From his big brother you’ll hear, “If I ever did that when I was a kid, dad would have…” and his sisters say over and again, “Mom gives you everything!” There is some truth to his siblings’ observations.

Jeffery has this tough, outer shell that matches his physical prowess. I tell people Jeffery is the buddy you call when you are moving from your apartment to your first house. He seems to have this endless surge of strength met with an equal amount of stamina. I stopped messing with him a long time ago.

Underneath that shell is the tenderness of gentle giant. When Jeffery fishes with me, he is a pure catch and release guy. None of his fish meet the filet knife. Before Lauren became his sister-in-law, she stayed with us in Jeffery’s room for a full month. Unknown to Lauren, the spider who made a daily appearance was a welcome guest in Jeffery’s room. It didn’t make for good family relationships when Jeffery discovered Lauren had prematurely ended the spider’s life.

On the court or the field, you want Jeffery on your team. He doesn’t require the glory, just get the job done. His one personal foul in football came during a critical point in a game his senior year when protecting his quarterback who had taken multiple cheap shots from a psycho in shoulder pads on the other team. If he’s your teammate or friend, he’ll stick with you. Better offers after making a commitment to you will not dissuade him. He’ll throw his lot in with you.

The last two years Jeffery has had us all to himself, and we him. The last time our little house was like this Michael wasn’t quite three-years-old and the conversations didn’t have complete sentences. I can see how the baby of the family sometimes comes to care for mom and dad.

Jeffery will leave home soon as is God’s plan for sons and daughters as they grow into maturity (Gen. 2:24). Jeffery made our family complete. We thank the Lord for what he has done in Jeffery’s life, and we look forward to what God will do in his life in the years to come.

Time to go for a ride in the Mustang.

As always I welcome your feedback and any suggestions you might have for an upcoming Lunchtime Musing.

A College Semester in God's Classroom

Today's Lunchtime Musing comes from the keyboard of one of our college students. Most Sundays you can find Emily VerWay at a keyboard helping God's people worship. During the week, there's a good chance you'll find her with a volleyball in her hands.

My name is Emily. Last week, I finished my sophomore year of college at the University of Wisconsin-Superior where I am studying Business Management and International Business, and also pursuing a degree in music.

College is fun. On the outside it may look like one big social event with a few babysitters, aka the RA’s who remind me that “your voice carries.” However, I’ll be the first to say that college is hard. Getting an education is hard. Building relationships and friendships is hard. Figuring out how to be independent apart from mom and dad is hard. Learning how to walk by faith in a faithless world and community is hard.

This semester was definitely my most difficult one yet both academically and spiritually. There were days when the struggles seemed to just completely run me over, resulting in frustration, discouragement, and many tears.

There were many nights of crying out to God, begging Him to give me an answer for what He was doing in my life. I didn’t understand, and quite frankly, I didn’t want to wait on God’s time. I wanted answers and I wanted them now. I wrestled with God. I wanted to grow, I really did, but I didn’t want the pain of His refining hand.

Slowly and graciously God was changing me. Over time, He humbled me, and really, isn't it in our hardest moment when we are finally humbled that we often see God most clearly? Isn’t it in the moments that we are reduced to nothing that we see God is offering everything? Isn’t it when we feel completely hopeless that we finally recognize that God is our hope?

Throughout this past semester, God has brought to my attention promise after promise about Himself and what He is actively doing for me, His child. I have to be honest, many of them have been "simple" truths like the fact that God is good (Ps. 119:68), sovereign (Jeremiah 29:11), or the truth that I need not fear with Him (Isaiah 41:10). I grew up learning those truths and know them back and forth, but God really challenged my heart with "do you actually believe those things about Me?" Turns out I didn't.

I didn't see how God's hand could possibly be "working all this together for good" (Romans 8:28). I didn’t see how the many promises in the Psalms of God’s blessings on the righteous could be true because in my mind, I certainly wasn’t on the receiving end of the blessings.

How thankful I am that God is so patient with my unbelieving and wandering heart. He took promise after promise from His word and lovingly handed it to me. He was patient when I questioned how it could be true. He listened and cared as I poured my heart out to Him (Psalm 62:8). He taught my heart that His promises are faithful and true. Why? Because He is faithful and true.

The promises of God stand true only because of the One who is on the other side of them. God could not promise to give me only good things if He was not good. God could not promise always to love me if He was not loving in the first place. But He is each of those, and more abundantly than I could ever understand.

So the really cool things about God's promises? They will not fail me. Why? Because God will not fail me. In fact, "not ONE WORD has failed of all His good promise" to me (1 Kings 8:56). God has always been faithful to me, and I know He will be again.

As always I welcome your feedback and any suggestions you might have for an upcoming Lunchtime Musing.

On This Date 30 Years Ago

May 16, 1987, when enough hairspray held the feathery locks against even gale force winds, I walked across the stage at Bob Jones University to receive my bachelor's degree. That was thirty years ago! I thank the Lord for those years - the lessons learned, the opportunities afforded, the relationships made, and the growth experienced.

Room, board, and tuition in the fall of 1983 was around $4,500 for the year, a huge amount of money for my family to consider but nowhere near the equivalent costs today. $4,500 in 1983 had the same buying power as $11,132 in 2017. Like most colleges and universities, the cost to attend in 2017 has far outpaced inflation.

Ironically, I remember my first year more than any of the rest. I've forgotten the names of roommates from some years but remember well Stacey Mauk and James Morris. Stacey was another freshman from Nebraska. James Morris was a fellow Chicago guy. These two impacted me far more than I knew at the time. As the only boy in a family of just two kids, I'd had my own bedroom most of my life. This was going to be an adjustment.

For a Christian high school, my graduating class of 26 and high school enrollment of nearly 140 was large compared to other Christian schools. Of course the number paled in comparison to public schools in the Chicago area. You can imagine my culture shock when my parents dropped me off on a campus of more than 5000 students. This too was going to be an adjustment.

It's funny to me that the classes I recall most are those from my freshman year. My first day of History of Civilization I sat in a lecture hall with 400 other students and listened as Dr. Edward Panosian told me of empires and civilizations that shaped the world. Dr. Panosian was a living icon, and History of Civilization immediately informed me of the reality of college classes. Never did I work so hard to get a D, the grade for my first test. Freshman speech and freshman English brought me new friends and a love for words spoken and written. When I sat in Principles of Christian Growth, the freshman Bible class taught by Dr. Mark Minnick theological mentor to me and to many others, it was like I was hearing the Bible for the first time. He taught me Bible truths I follow every day.

From singing in an opera to preaching on a street corner to paying my own bills to living in a dormitory with a couple hundred other guys to talking to my family once-a-week, God used those early months of adulting to stretch and shape me.

I continue to believe in the value of higher level Christian education. The impact isn’t measured merely in the value of the degree but in the shaping of worldview, in the challenge of the college chapel, and in the formation of Christian character.

The Lord was good to provide quality institutions to the church in the past decades, and the Lord is good to provide them for our students and families in the present. Our prayers go with these schools that God would keep them viable and Christian.

As always I welcome your feedback and any suggestions you might have for an upcoming Lunchtime Musing.